Tuesday, March 28, 2006

Why do people run their fool mouth off?! #%^&

Today I went to a meeting for my brother Barry and his girlfriend Tammy. The meeting was about a 3 year plan for them. It's a plan to help them on their way in life. I think everyone needs to do this. Barry has Cerebral Palsy. It hasn't gotten him down. He drive a car can work ect. He isn't wheelchair bound. His motor control can be shaky at time but he function just find. His girlfriend has problem of her own. So this meeting was to help them prepare for their life together and for family and friends to give their input. For Barry side their was myself,mom,my daughter Melanie,Mano his EI worker, His bestbuddy Michele. For His girlfriend there was her aunt, her bestbuddy and this bitch who acts like she knows it all her name is Deanna. Barry had been telling me about her for a few years. But it was never good.

Well we were sitting there and the planner Connie ask them in a perfect world without disabilities or money problems ect what would your life be like. It was great to see the wonderful dreams that they both thought of. Then Connie said how can we make some of these dream come true in a three years. So they got to pick what was possible on the chart to work on to make their lives happy in the next three years. A dream of Barry's is to have a forklift license. I thought this is great and the bitch Deanna said "I don't think that can happen." She thinks that she can control my brother because he has a disability. She got angry when I said in my own words Barry can do achieve what he wants. Mano his employment worker told Connie that she was looking into it ect and yes it was possible. But before the meeting started. Someone ask Deanna why she was here. And her words were I don't fucken know. I don't want to be here! Then she said something about not liking Barry ect. You see she is suppose to be the head of the disability board. She always acting like Barry is her problem and she is in control of what he is able to do.

She has nothing to do with my brother. So the next meeting we have in September I will be telling her to keep out of my brother's life and dreams. She has nothing but negative thoughts. In our family we always told Barry he can achieve anything he wants. We will back him up in all that he want to accomplish even if people think he can't! We will find a way to get him where he want to go. So Deanna you've met you match lady! I will stand up to you! Other's may feel intimidated by you but I'm not. As you can tell by today. I will not put up with an ignorant, rude, control freak, dream crushing Bitch! I will not allow you to make my brother feel insecure and useless. I will not allow you to take his power! See you in September with bells on!

Don't ever let others negative thoughts crush your dreams. These people haven't achieved their hopes and dreams. So they rather you as unhappy as them. Don't let them take your power away!
Cherlee

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