The ex 's Shank!

Melanie I were talking the other day and she wanted to get this insurance policy she entitled to from her father's work out of the way. It's not a big policy but she and I figure she's having a hard enough time dealing with her dad's death let's get this over with so she doesn't have to be reminded each time the subject comes up. And she doesn't want to deal with this when her son is born. She wants to enjoy her son. Not go over her dad's death over and over again. Poor thing she's having such a hard time with this and I'm really worried because she in the 7 month and this is the danger zone!!


I have to say this before I continue about what's entitled to her. Mel has been so upset with the fact that all she receive was my and Bruce's picture. She wanted something of her dad's. I thought this was awful she didn't receive anything. So I told her ask the skank for a something small of her dad's she has a right to it. Well she asked the skank for a bandanna since he wore them all the time and had a few. Mel explained that she would like something of her dad's anything even if it's a shirt. The skank replys to my daughter " There's nothing left".

WTF was she talking about there's nothing left!!! This was a week after the funeral! She gave a person she claim was his best friend that I never heard of and I knew Bruce for over 23 years and never heard of this man. I understand she gave his family stuff. But to someone that will move on a throw it away in time. Fucking Bitch this pissed me right off because Melanie hasn't stop crying since she asked! She wasn't asking for anything of money value but sentimental value only and she can't give her anything. Who the hell does this skank think she is. She will move on and find another man. But Mel will never have another father. She wanted something to give to her son when he was old enough to understand. I'm so angry with this bitch right now. She is so lucky I don't live there because I would take Melanie over there and get her something of her father's. There is no will and Melanie is entitled to everything of her father's. The skank wasn't married to him. DUH. But we have other plan's with her. If she doesn't give Mel what she needs. We already talk to a lawyer about this. We don't wanna go that root because we want this over and go on with our lives. But at least we know we have other opinions.

When Mel was down there for the funeral The skank asked Mel for her social insurance number and the phone number and Address. Because she was dealing with the insurance. But the funny thing is my daughter is 20 and it's Mel's insurance policy!

First of all I didn't want the Skank having my daughter SIN number but Melanie gave it to her anyways. I don't trust this woman!! But my daughter figure just give it to her she wouldn't do anything to her. Then I thought it was funny that she didn't have our phone number because Bruce Melanie's dad called all the time. I thought this was strange that this woman didn't know our number. Hmmmmmmm So I asked Melanie and she told me that her dad knew our number off by heart and didn't put it in the memory of his phone and never told the skank our number. This will always be a mystery to me! But it tells me alot!

The skank told Melanie that she hasn't heard anything from the insurance company. I thought this was strange because I was told that you have to talk to the insurance company right away so they can get things done. I told my daughter why does she have to be involved with your insurance policy it has nothing to do with her. She has no right to it. She has only been in his life for over 4 years Also I always promised Bruce no matter who he was with to help Mel get what is rightfully her's. Funny I'm still mad at Bruce because even though he's gone I'm still fighting with shit due to him!! But on the other hand I miss him terribly. Go figure.

So anyways I get Melanie to call her dad's work to ask them if they need any more information since The skank hasn't heard anything from the his work. Well Mel calls and the first thing they tell is " We have been waiting for your call. Since your dad's funeral!!!!"

I say WTF is going on. So the girl at her father's work gives her the number she has to call about the insurance policy. And that girl says the same thing. And what got to me the most both of these people tell us that the Skank has keep in contact with them and talk to them about stuff. Also the skank wanted to know who name the insurance policy was in and guess what they couldn't tell her the name due to privacy laws. But for her to make sure his daughter calls they needed her info.

Well first of all she had all of Mel's info and never gave it to them. And she still has it. What the hell is she doing going to pretend that she's Mel later or what. The woman also was surprised we lived in in New Brunswick not in Ontario because she thought we lived in the same town as her father. That's what she got off the skank! What was she trying to do make Mel look bad!

The women were thankful she called. They also told her that the skank has nothing to do with Mel's insurance policy! So why is she trying to get involved. By this time Mel is shocked and in tears that the skank would do this to her. She so angry now and upset I was over the top. So I started to do some calling by this time. They inform us that we need a death certificate and then the paper work will be started and that they will send her all the paper she has to sign and they will deal with all the rest. So I said great but how do I get this paper they wanted. She told me to call the funeral home that's where it's at and get two from them. Ok fine I call and they told me I couldn't get any. Mel was not next of kin the skank was!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OMGGGGGGGGGG I said my daughter didn't want to talk to the skank now because of all the lies that she told. So this poor woman tried to call the skank and asked. And the bitch refused! She was angry that Mel went behind her back. WTF went behind her back she has nothing to do with Mel stuff!! AND who the F#$% lied!

Mel couldn't call her she was so hurt and spent that I asked my mother if she could call. By this time I was blowing a fuse. I was thinking she can do what the hell to me but she hurt my daughter and I won't have any control over what I say or do on the phone. So I decided the best thing to do is get my mom to call. Also we needed someone calm to do this so she said yes. Mom loves stuff like this. lol

Well my mom called and the skank freaked on her by saying Who the hell was she to go behind her back! First of all this is Mel business not her's and Mel isn't her daughter she's mine. And Mel is an adult not a child! Then she says in her ranting and raving she says " I'm not ready yet" WTF ready for what this has nothing to do with her. This is about Mel not her! There were 5 of us sitting around the table and all we could hear is my mother say in a calm cool voice " Excuse me darling that is my granddaughter your talking about" And my mother repeated this a few times. And tried to talk and she keep going about Mel going behind her back. Then skanky hung up on my mom and my mother never freaked or insulted her I was thankful it was mom instead of me. After skanky hung up I asked what she was saying about Mel and my mom just said it's not something I want to repeat. You are better not knowing. Then she said " I see what you mean about her"


It's has always been about the skank since I've know her I've know her for years. As some of you know. And she the type it's all about poor skanky. Well she isn't the only one that's hurting. His daughter and family and friends are. I know I'm lost I was with that man for over 12 years and always talk to him even though it wasn't pretty all the time lol But we always loved each other. Well enough of that.

Mel was worried about what her family thought down there. I told her I can't see it. But I told her this has to do with the skank not them. If they knew what she was doing they would understand. And if they took the skanks side well then they lose out because Mel is the only connecting to Bruce. It's his blood that is flowing in Mel's veins not The Monkey Face Skank.
Omg my poor baby is going through hell and it breaks my heart. When will this shit end. I told Mel skanky will go on with her life and find someone else. So once this is over she doesn't have to deal with her again. Mel owes her nothing but skanky owes Mel right now and she doesn't even realize it.


Now skanky says she won't ever find another soul mate. But she bragging about her ex's father wanting her ex and her to get back together and she say's that's not going to happen but she spending time with her ex's family. And why the hell is she telling Mel this? Mel never asked her anything about that. But that's another thing.

I told Mel "You don't need to hear that shit!" Yeah skanky everyone wants yeah. Gross!

Anywho Mel wrote skanky a great letter it was very well said. It wasn't rude or insulting. I'm very proud of what she wrote. It brought a tear to my eye because it let me know how fast she grew up and how proud of her that she becoming a wonderful and beautiful woman. She is truly amazing! I love you so much Mel. I'm here for you!

Sending Hugs and Love all of your ways!
Cherlee